Hope everyone will forgive me for a little fatherly pride. My little one arrived last night in what must have been the absolute worst and best day of my life. He was 8 days late and he didn't react well to the labor inducing medicine. His heart rate dropped extremely low for about 5 minutes a couple of times and the doctors came to me and said that they were worried about damage to the baby if it continued so they wanted to do a caesarian right away. So that and the 3 hour wait afterward was pretty much the worst time of my life. Then I got to see him later looking pretty much as healthy as any other baby and that was the best moment of my life.
Thanks to all who helped me with the name. In the end we went with Soma (想真) which means something along the lines of "pure truth".