Just watched the trailer for this and I couldn't help but think - I don't want this! I don't want to hear about how it really was. I want to play a game. I want to believe that a solider can get shot 50 times - drink a canteen and be fine. What next, real recovery time in the hospital?
I think its great that you don't want this. That means you're different from me, and that makes the world go round

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However, I may be detecting a hint of "why aren't all FPS games the way I like them?" To which I reply, that's because we're all different.
Someone may not like playing a cop, so therefore won't like SWAT 4. Someone may not like an FPS where you have to hit "W,W,W,W" to get regen healing so therefore won't like UT2K4.
In closing, it's great that you don't like these features. Even better is the fact that games without these features already exist. However, please accept the fact that I (and other gamers) may like these features and thus would like to play a game with them enabled.